Aabishkar Wagle, BSc. Hons IT from University of Wolverhampton (2019)
- Make friends. At-least 4 or 5 close friends. Sometimes pay their canteen fee. Invite them to your home sometimes. Anyhow make some good people close to you.
- Having a crush at college is a very common thing. But don’t ever use your huge time at impressing them. If they like you, they will like you the way you are.
- Most of the college are not good. Even it is, there will still be one reason for not liking your college. But, don’t be egoistic with that thing. Study yourself. Don’t blame your teachers and college management for everything.
- I know there is fun in starting your coursework one day before submission but that is not a good practice. At least complete 60 percent of your project/coursework before two days of submission. Don’t be lazy and don’t procrastinate. That is how you become a successful student.
- Do not put anything over your study when exams are near. Sometimes your friends might call you and ask you to study in group. Never ever do group study before 1 day of your examination if you are an average student. You have to build an attitude of studying alone even if you are a social person.
- Focus on what you should study and what is important. Set a target and accomplish it. No matter what! Again, I repeat, No matter what!
- Finally, make memories. That is all that matters in life.
Anyway I’ll stop blabbering. There is a point to this, I’ll attempt to offer some sound advice that gets me through the day
- find friends that you love unconditionally
- maintain a hobby that you can’t go without
- become an inquisitive individual that loves to learn anything and everything
- get outside and love nature
- get a pet, and love that pet
- maintain schedules, become a strict methodical individual that does not deviate from plans.
- Tell people how you feel. Be blunt.
- Live to please yourself primarily, but caring for others always feels great
- Learn what becoming “”in the moment” is.
- Meditate
- rid your mind of distractions
- delete and block negative people from your life
- do not get far in debt.
- Learn to love something creative: singing dancing… doesn’t matter if you are good. It makes the body feel good
- get healthy. Eat better food, exercise and sweat.
- Improve your personal hygiene
- but new outfits that make you feel confident, don’t be afraid to ask for help.
- Never actively seek sympathy.
- Dare to become the person you formerly never had the courage to be…